Can we effectively use animal training principles to train our spouses? I had never thought about it until my husband sent me an article by Amy Sutherland, entitled “What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage”. The fact that he sent me the article is probably a case study itself, but nevertheless, I found the article fascinating.
Stages of Marriage
If you’re married, you’ve probably been through many stages of your relationship. Of course some are better than others but typically include growth, compromise, trust, love, forgiveness, passion, laughter and many more. My husband and I are in multiple phases: one child in college, one applying to college, anticipation of empty nest, aging parents and successful retirement not too far away (we hope).
As many of us contemplate retirement, one of the things to think about is how we’re going to spend our time together. All of a sudden we have lots of quality time together. It’s an adjustment for sure, and one that will benefit from good communication.
It’s Not Too Late
When you’ve been married for 20+ years, it’s easy to think “it is what it is” and you’re too far down the path to teach an old dog new tricks. I prefer not to accept that and believe that as you age, you grow, mature and figure out how to be a better person, parent and spouse. And sometimes it’s the little things; a small adjustment can make a big difference. This is probably why I loved this article and am trying a few of the ideas. My guess is that my husband may be trying them out, too. Let’s see if we have success!
To read Amy’s article, click on the following link:
What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage
I hope you enjoy!
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